AAHHH I LOVE HER SO MUCHHHH
I love chapter 51 of Haikyuu-bu!! because it fleshes her and Genta (her boyfriend) a lot more and shows yet another unique perspective on volleyball and different people's experiences with it. Hiromi played volleyball in middle school, but eventually reached what she thought was her limit and didn't want to play anymore, and that's okay. Intense sports aren't for everyone, and if she didn't want to dedicate any more time to it, that's totally fine and she has nothing to be ashamed of. She found something else in her life that she loves and is able to keep being her awesome self without having to play a sport that she doesn't necessarily enjoy.

When she and Genta went to the beach in that chapter of Haikyuu-bu!! and entered a beach volleyball tournament, not only did the "I have to make sure they never find out I used to play volleyball" antics of Hiromi and Genta offer some comedy, they also made me want to cheer for them and help both of them realize that they should be proud of what they did before, even if they never played really well or placed high in a tournament. They did their best and made it to a certain point, and that's worth being proud of. Hiromi's spike (see image below) was my favorite part of the chapter:

I love seeing girls spike in co-ed volleyball games! A lot of times in manga, when a couple plays any form of volleyball together, the girl is usually shown setting to the boy, and this is usually framed as the girl supporting the boy and the boy doing the exciting things and getting all the glory, which is pretty sexist if you think about it. This happened in a Haikyuu-bu!! chapter, too - the one where Mika and Daishou go on a date and end up playing volleyball together. I'm not saying it's always wrong, and I'm definitely not diminishing the role of a setter or female setters in general (I'm actually a backup setter on both of my volleyball teams, so I understand how crucial the setter's role is), but I do think that the way these scenes are framed is often quite sexist and forces the female character into a supporting role. (Image below: Mika setting to Daishou in chapter 6 of Haikyuu-bu!!)

Hiromi's spike was awesome because even after Genta tried so hard to support her and protect her, he himself ultimately wasn't enough, and he had to allow himself to rely on Hiromi's power for them to win. A good and strong relationship is when both people rely on each other and trust each other equally. In a straight couple, the man should not have to take all the burdens upon himself just to protect the woman, and the woman should not be forced to rely on the man for everything, and seeing Hiromi and Genta play beach volleyball together as a team reminded me of this. Even though the majority of the game was focused on Genta's thoughts and the progression of his character, Hiromi got her moment in the spotlight, too, and it was an important one for both the development of her individually and the development of her relationship with Genta. She didn't feel the need to play worse on purpose just to make Genta feel more comfortable and "masculine" - she did what she did for her own reasons and proved that she, as a girl, is perfectly capable of playing on the same court as Genta, a boy, even though she was holding back. Hiromi and Genta have such an equal, supportive, and healthy relationship (which is absolutely adorable!) and Hiromi herself is realistic, fun, strong, and compelling.